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Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Benda yg lepas, hai jangan dikenang

Lalala..benda yg lepas, hai jangan dikenang

No..not at all that I will singing the retro song…It just something that maybe in point of view that maybe useful for future brides

Disclaimer 1 : I don’t mean to harsh anybody..It just a cycle of our life…and maybe sometimes nasib dan part masing2. Please accept my apology if anybody hurts deep inside…

Disclaimer 2 :And I’m not trying to scared bride-to-be….as long as u have done ur best, just pray everything will be ok *yang penting akad nikah tu!*

Bunga telur
..pahar bunga telur leh muat 50. Bila bunga telur + telur, anda hanya boleh muatkan lebih kurang 30 aje..sbb klu lebih isi, pahar itu x dapat menampung overweight. So kalau beli 2 kotak dh dpt 3 bunga pahar…

Tips/ advices..so on
Of course, dlm proses sibuk2 nk kawen mcm2 nasihat, tips, guides yg anda dpt dr mak andam, pak andam, bloggers, kawan2 dsb….

Sila jangan percaya sume boolat2….since sometimes fakta itu mungkin auta…~ mcm bunyi fakta @ auta kat hot.fm aje

Sila ukur baju di badan sdiri..xsume padan dgn anda..dsb

DIY
Many bride to be excited doing DIY…of course u’ll satisfied…but please plan ur time and ur health also…don’t overnight doing all the DIY

Families & relatives
Yes it is about involvement…of course besides your parents

..makcik-pakcik
…sepupu
…2pupu
..all

will be happy bila tau korang nk kawen

Please check adat2 or kebiasaan keluarga ~ amik kira kata2 mereka even though ini zaman canggih dan kamu yg kahwin

They might be interested to sponsor certain things ..maybe berkat, bunga telur or anything…grab it *but of course in future u’ll help their son/ daughter wedding…xsalah kan?* But please don’t expect la they sponsor grand like Mawi-Ekin

Tentative program
Always have buffer 30minutes..since end up maybe mak andam, kompang, tok kadi, rombongan pengantin lelaki, traffic jam, and so on….

I know we are trying very best to be punctual, but sometimes org2 lain yg akan bisa buat anda rasa nk sumpah seranah %$#@!!**()^^

And my opinion, bersanding paling lewat adalah pukul 2ptg since the most, u might end up bersanding pukul 2.30ptg

Dealings with all vendors
Vendor here means encik tukang gambar, mak andam, tukang buat pelamin dsb

Sometimes we are trying to be nice by support biz kawan2 parents, kawan2 kita, relatives or anyone that we know..esp we are trying to support bangsa kita..

But end up you might be not satisfied..lambat, lewat, indah khabar dr rupa, janji2 hanyalah janji manis..or maybe end up you need to pay extra untk hape2 charge ~ye maybe korg guna certain brg diorg, tp at other side korg ada jugak guna brg sdiri walaupun at 1st place diorg ptt provide eg kasut kahwin

Advice : sabar..banyak2 sabar walaupun teramat geram…anggapla itu rezeki mereka pd masa itu….and another thing u have the power not to give any good testimonials/ suggestions to others for their services * x baik tutup periuk nasi diorg…jgn sibuk hal org lain~ lgpun klu diorg aniaya korg, in future maybe diorg kena balik…Tuhan kan adil

Shopping
Some even have opportunity+money+time going overseas to buy things for their big day...like Bandung and so on

Don't feel sad jika all ur wedding things "Made in Malaysia"...u should be proud of it, lgpun anda juga "Made in Malaysia" kan..hihihi :p

*sy pun beli sume kat sini2 je ~ even xsempat pun pegi sume tempat sbb limitation is there timing, weather, and so

Should I continue to Part 2? *hihi since nnt komen kata panjang sgt plak…

7 comments:

  1. very gud info..thanks for sharing..

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  2. ya allah.. i rase sgt berdebar bace blog u ni.. takutnye nak kawen.. huhuhu...

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  3. terima kasih
    tips dr pengalaman sendiri adalah sgt berharga tau
    sgt hargainya

    bunga pahar tu bleh letak 30 je eh kalau dah letak telur
    so kita perlukan dlm 60 je lah kan

    so kalau dah beli 50
    should be cukup lah kan...
    satu lepatk 25 je..boleh tak rasanya??

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  4. amy-wan & nurul aziyana...welcome...:)

    azuraaa...takut tu normal..tp sy x bertujuan nk takutkan smpi anda x jadik kawen...it just reminder

    dayu...welcome...
    50 dh cukup kot..tp bg bunga telur yg besar2 la hihi..spaya x le rongak sgt

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  5. salam.. i nak tnya , u amik mak andam mana n baper kosnya.. really nice!! i really need to know.. survey for my big dayy.. hhihi.. my name shahidah, famili dok kat bukit siput, segamat.. thanks frenzz

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  6. salam.. i nak tnya , u amik mak andam mana n baper kosnya.. really nice!! i really need to know.. survey for my big dayy.. hhihi.. my famili dok kat bukit siput, segamat.. thanks frenzz

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